The reality is that the majority of our beliefs and emotions are formed from the experiences of the present moment. In other words, we can’t just decide to be better, we have to learn to be comfortable with the way we are.
That feeling of being “better” is usually because we’ve finally got our “stuff” down. We’ve been trying to learn to accept ourselves as the way we really are, but we’ve gotten stuck in a rut where we just don’t really feel it. You can’t change the way you feel, but you can choose to make yourself feel better, or at least more comfortable, by changing your beliefs.
You can choose to be comfortable in your own skin and accept you as you are, or you can choose to believe you have to change yourself to make yourself feel better. If you choose to be uncomfortable and feel more like an outcast than an outcast, you’ll probably end up getting a lot more done than you might expect.
To start, you can start by going to the forums and read about what everyone is saying about what you are feeling. If you feel like your belief of yourself as a “bad” person is holding you back, you could start to write down why you feel this way. For instance, if you feel like your beliefs about how you should behave are holding you back, write down what you think is wrong with how you behave, and why you feel this way.
If you start to feel like you are holding yourself back from being as good as you want to be, you can start to write down what you want to do to become the best person you can be. For instance, if you want to write a book, you might start to think about the things you want to say in it, what you hope to learn from it, etc.
Thinking about how you should behave and what you want to do is a great way to become more self-aware. For example, I’ve done this with my current girlfriend, and as a result, I’ve become far more aware of my own behavior. For me, this has been a huge catalyst for me to want to try and be more mindful of what I am doing and to try and do it more for my own enjoyment.
Writing, as a whole, can be somewhat self-obsessed. When I was studying at university, I took a writing course that gave us a bunch of basic writing exercises to do and told us to write about ourselves, then we were encouraged to write about real life events – from the mundane to the grandest. The best part of the course was that we were encouraged to write about a person’s life, so I can’t imagine anyone else doing it.
I’ve never written anything about my own life in any kind of writing. It’s pretty vague, but it’s easy to write about people you can’t get to, and the real story you’re about to tell will probably be about you and your family.
Writing is a way of life, so we all have our own reasons to write. This was the best we could do, but it was still a lot of work. I would really recommend this course to anyone who wants to write about anything in general. It doesn’t matter if you want to write about the mundane, or about something more grand.
The main thing we want to stress is that this is a really simple course. We were told that it was a “fantasy” course, but the “fantasy” part was just a way to get us to take our writing outside of the real world. The “reality” thing was just that you have to be told exactly what you are allowed to say and what you can’t say. This is another reason why we did this course in the first place.
